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    Celebrating the life of

    Stan Bolin

    01 Jan 1940 - 13 Nov 2021

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    Thank you for visiting the living memorial to celebrate the life of Paul Stanley Bolin, Jr., a man whose heart was as big as his ideas. Please share a story, picture, or any other memories or thoughts you have about Paul (or Stan as many of you knew him!) by sharing here on the tribute wall or emailing me at storyofstanbolin@gmail.com.

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    20 Nov 2021

    Sabrina Bolin Paul Stanley Bolin, Jr. Obituary

    1 Jan 1940Covington, KY, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Stan was born with sweet blond curls and beautiful blue eyes to his parents, Paul Sr. and Thelma Jean

    1940Covington, KY, United States

    Sabrina Bolin

    1941

    Sabrina Bolin Stan was proud of the Bolin family name and felt a connection to his English and Scottish heritage (this is the Bolin family Crest)

    1 Jan 1946Midwest City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Stan was an only child with an active imagination, always dreaming up new adventures (and sometimes with imaginary friends tagging along!)

    1 Jan 1947Midwest City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Born in Kentucky, but raised in Oklahoma, Stan embraced his "inner Okie" every chance he got ;)

    1951Midwest City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Stan's School Photo

    1 Jan 1955Midwest City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Stan always knew how to find his people, no matter where he went

    1 Jan 1957Midwest City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Adored his parents in his teen years too

    1959Oklahoma City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Always setting out to do his own thing, Stan was a founding member (#4!) of the Beta Zeta chapter of the Sigma Tau Gamma fraternity at Central State University (now called University of Central Oklahoma)

    1 Jan 1969Oklahoma City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin

    1 Oct 1971Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam

    Sabrina Bolin Arrived in Vietnam as a volunteer civilian engineer to help with the war effort

    1972Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam

    Sabrina Bolin Playing in the company band in Vietnam

    1973Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam

    Sabrina Bolin Stan was honored to receive the Medal for Civilian Service in Vietnam for his work during the war

    30 Apr 1975Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam

    Sabrina Bolin After a little over 3 years in Vietnam, Stan evacuated with so many others during what became known as the "Fall of Saigon" and end of the Vietnam War. His experience changed the trajectory of his life, and he committed to helping the Vietnamese people with his entrepreneurial ideas upon his return home to Oklahoma.

    1980Midwest City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Stan and Sabrina listening to jazz

    1 Jan 1983Midwest City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Stan's passion to work with the Vietnamese people was ignited during his time in Vietnam, and it jumpstarted his next career as an entrepreneur. He started a company called Intechnica International in 1983, and in 1990, filed for a patent on his voice interactive technology to teach English as a second-language. He pursued projects connected with this vision for many years until his battle with Parkinson's disease led him to pull back his efforts and focus on his family.

    14 Aug 1985Clinton

    Sabrina Bolin Stan loved taking the family on trips in the camper van, and they made the trek back to the family farm in Clinton, Kentucky often.

    1987Oklahoma City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Music was one of Stan's greatest passions; here he is with the Royalaires (he's the one with the big smile and sunglasses standing up in the middle of the truck)

    1989Oklahoma City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin "Life is like a trumpet - if you don't put anything into it, you don't get anything out of it." -William Christopher Handy

    14 Jan 1993Milan, Lombardy, Italy

    Sabrina Bolin Stan was a visionary, and in 1988, he started working with Egidio Pentitaro of Milan, Italy, who said "Stan has the most brilliant intuition in the world." The full article can be found on The Oklahoman's website in the archives, and part of it has been pasted here: A chance meeting at a Seattle software show has led to a multimillion dollar contract linking a Midwest City language arts software company and an Italian electronics publisher. Stanley Bolin, president of Intechnica International of Midwest City, and Egidio Pentiraro, managing director and founder of Italy's Editoria Elettronica Editel, Wednesday announced plans to sell Intechnica's multimedia language software throughout Europe. Bolin was peddling interactive multimedia software in 1987 when he met Pentiraro, . "He was the only person there who had the foresight," Pentiraro said Wednesday at Bolin's office. "No one else had multimedia. We say Stan has the most brilliant intuition in the world. " The two started working together in 1988. Now Intechnica has doubled its job base, employing about 15 people at its corporate offices at Tinker Business and Industrial Park in Midwest City.

    15 Jul 1997Malibu

    Sabrina Bolin Stan was a proud dad when his daughter Sabrina was accepted into Pepperdine University in Malibu, California

    2002Los Angeles, CA, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Stan and Sabrina in California

    2004Los Angeles, CA, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Stan visiting Sabrina

    Stan sold his trumpet and shared the history of it with the new owner via email: Charles, I know you will enjoy the horn as I did for so many years. It is special. In the late 1950's and early 60's I was in the bands at Oklahoma City University where James Neilson was the director. Larry Skinner was lead trumpet player followed by a couple of le...

    Sabrina Bolin22 Sep 2005
    8 Oct 2006Los Angeles, CA, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Always up for an adventure, Stan enjoyed visiting his daughter Sabrina in LA and explored many of the sights with her around town

    1 Apr 2008

    Sabrina Bolin Stan's passion for helping the Vietnamese people is seen in this application he completed for the Room to Read literacy program (scroll through the photos to read more about his experience in Vietnam and his ideas to promote literacy):

    14 Nov 2010Oklahoma City

    Omid Abtahi I remember our dinner at Golden Corral so well. Not for the food we ate, but the depth of love Stan showed for his daughter, Sabrina, that day. I remember he brought a small TV to the restaurant along with a DVD player and during dinner played the movie that she was the star of. I was just getting to know Stan then. My future father-in-law, but I’ll never forget the impression he left on me. What it means to be a father and how you love and support your children. We miss you, and we’ll forever cherish the memories we have of you.

    The biggest thing I remember about Stan was that he was a people person. He loved having company and telling stories about his many adventures. I was his neighbor for many years and my sons got to play with his youngest daughter, Mary. Stan was always bragging about how smart both his daughters were and how proud he was of them. Stan and I shared a...

    Kacey Walkingstick 2012
    17 May 2017Midwest City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Stan wanted to share his love for music with his grandchild and gifted a trumpet to him when he was about a year and a half old; he hopes to one day toot his horn just like his grandpa!

    24 Jan 2018Oklahoma City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin This picture was taken the week Stan moved into his long-term care facility, Brookwood Skilled Nursing (called Grace Living Center Brookwood at the time). He desperately wanted to keep his dog Lucky with him, but it wasn't an option, so Lucky had to find a new home and new people to love him. As you can see in this picture, dad loved his dogs, and they loved him right back, known to take in strays because he just couldn't say no to a dog who needed a little food and a lot of love.

    3 Jun 2018Oklahoma City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin One thing Stan and his grandson have in common...they love to snack!

    17 Dec 2018Oklahoma City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Stan always loved celebrating Christmas with the people he cared about

    I knew Stan as "Paul" while he lived in Midwest City. I assisted him in some life situations as I'm a private aide, but Stan became a trusted friend very quickly. Paul was a kind man with a good heart. I remember bringing him over dinner for the holidays. We sat and talked for hours about his life experiences. He lived a full and fruitful life an...

    Stacy Lemonds25 Dec 2018
    26 Jan 2019Oklahoma City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Grateful for visitors in his new home (with Nien and Angela)

    8 Mar 2019Oklahoma City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Playing games can keep your mind sharp...playing them with your grandson, keeps your spirit young too!

    23 Jun 2019Oklahoma City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Being "Grandpa" was definitely one of Stan's favorite jobs, and he always wanted more time with his grandson Miles.

    22 Sep 2019Oklahoma City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Parkinson's disease affected Stan's life in a big way, but he never let it take his joy for simple pleasures away.

    22 Sep 2019Oklahoma City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Stan was always proud of his son-in-law Omid and loved the precious moments they got together

    30 Dec 2019Oklahoma City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Stan always had a sweet tooth, so it's no surprise he was a regular at the weekly ice cream socials at the nursing home!

    31 Dec 2019Oklahoma City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Even in the nursing home, he found ways to celebrate the holidays with friends (with John, Julie, Angela, and Sabrina)

    19 Aug 2020Oklahoma City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Stan and his family did their best to stay connected at the height of the pandemic with window visits and lots of Facetime calls

    11 May 2021Oklahoma City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Stan was grateful for every moment he had on this planet, saying often "I'm a lucky guy, aren't I?"

    29 Jun 2021Oklahoma City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Stan's hospitalization with pneumonia gave his family another opportunity to come together and call on his connection to Buddhist culture for support.

    15 Aug 2021Oklahoma City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin Stan was lucky to have good friends till the end (with his buddy John Meyer)

    29 Oct 2021Oklahoma City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin

    30 Oct 2021Oklahoma City, OK, United States

    Sabrina Bolin The last day Stan spent with family was on October 30th, 2021, two weeks before he passed. He took a stroll outside and enjoyed the beautiful fall weather. He was happy and knew he was loved until the very end.