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    Celebrating the life of

    Paul Totti

    07 Jun 1970 - 20 May 2020

    Family and friends

    This page was created to bring together precious memories of Paul Totti's life and to share notes of condolences for his loved ones. Photos, videos, links, and stories are all welcomed to celebrate and remember Paul.

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    1976

    Julie McArthur Glen Cairn P.S., Grade 1

    Jun 1978

    Julie McArthur Oakburn Road Gang

    1983

    Julie McArthur W. Erskine Johnston, Grade 8

    Feb 1988

    Julie McArthur Pluto, God of the Underworld

    2000

    Julie McArthur Byward Market

    16 Aug 2006

    Diane Waloff Ilaria, Paolo, Mark, Nilo Medicina Italia Aug 2006

    17 Aug 2006

    Diane Waloff Paul Seaside Italy Aug 2006

    2008

    Julie McArthur Paul with John, Laura, and Bruce McArthur

    1 Oct 2009

    Diane Waloff Paul with Snow Birds pilots Cold Lake October 01 2009

    4 Jan 2010

    Diane Waloff Visit to Venice FL Jan 04, 2010 Diane, Gino, Cousin Sue, Paul

    31 May 2010

    Diane Waloff Stefano, Paul, Gino, Sonia, Claudio May 31, 2010 Medicina Italia

    31 May 2010

    Diane Waloff Stefano, Paul, Gino, Sonia, Claudio May 31, 2010 Medicina Italia

    26 Jun 2010

    Diane Waloff Paul taking photos Annamaria's wedding June 26, 2010 Bologna

    24 May 2011

    Diane Waloff Pizza at Castel San Pietro for Annamaria's Birthday May 24, 2011

    26 May 2011

    Diane Waloff Pizza at Castel San Pietro with Alberto Modelli, Paul, Ines, Rita & Gino May 26, 2011

    31 May 2011

    Diane Waloff Dinner with Bruno, Mafelda & family May 31, 2011 Medicina

    31 May 2012

    Diane Waloff Bruno, Mafelda & family dinner May 31, 2012 Medicina

    5 Jan 2017

    Diane Waloff Franca, Paul, Christine at Gino's Birthday dinner Jan 05, 2017 Kanata

    22 Jul 2017

    Alessia Matsos

    12 Jun 2020

    Alessia Matsos Paul's old Flickr page showcasing his awesome photography work: https://www.flickr.com/photos/paul_totti/albums/with/72157634884118798

    A beautiful celebration of a beautiful life. Thank you to all of Paul's family for including us. Our deepest condolences, Elena, Luca, Maristella and Nemi Bovo

    Luca Bovo14 Jun 2020

    Franca, the deepest condolences from your hopefully not too annoying neighbors. You and Paul will always be family for us. We are here for you, unless we sell the house. (We could have told you from the balcony on the backyard but just in case)

    Davide Spinello14 Jun 2020

    Our deepest condolences to Christine, Gino, Franca, John, Mark, and to all family and friends that miss him. We have been robbed, but the pain for losing you is a testament to your character. This is to you Paul: "We are going to die, and that makes us the lucky ones. Most people are never going to die because they are never going to be born. T...

    Davide Spinello14 Jun 2020

    I don't have any pictures with Paul, but I have images from his time in Italy of places he and I both experienced in our respective times there. He was one of the first people at Earl of March (outside of the few friends I already knew) that befriended me. He was always kind, funny and warm in our friendship. We are both Italian and in a time when ...

    Marco Renna14 Jun 2020

    Although I had met Paul a few times before, the time I remember the most was around Christmas 2 or 3 years ago. He was fighting a bad cold but really wanted to spend time with Franca's Family. He braved the evening with cold pills and wine and we talked small talk, as people do at get togethers. 2 or 3 hours was all it took to list Paul as my fr...

    Kristoffer D'Angelo14 Jun 2020

    I always looked forward to talking politics, social issues, etc. with Paul. We would always have some pretty in depth conversations and arguments about various subjects. What I really enjoyed about our time spent together was the back and forth banter. I would get him going on a topic, really worked up, then say something completely offside to try ...

    Giulio Palazzo14 Jun 2020

    What a beautiful memorial today. My deepest condolences to Franca, Mark and to Paul’s parents and family. May Paul’s memory be eternal.

    Lucie Brandt14 Jun 2020

    Hi Franca, just wanted to let you know what a beautiful celebration of life for what clearly was a wonderful and caring man. Once again from Tony and I our deepest heartfelt condolences.

    mary lou caruso14 Jun 2020

    Paul was a teenager when his family visited us in Florida. He took great pains to dress up in his finest 'punk' clothes and a spiked red hair style. He was ready to explore our neighborhood until Diju informed him in no uncertain terms that he would be arrested if seen on our streets! Paul was disappointed but very good natured and there ensued a w...

    Lynne Raha14 Jun 2020
    14 Jun 2020

    Davide Spinello We only got a few precious and unforgettable years, but it feels like you have been part of our family forever. We will never forget you. We love you, Courtney, Sofia and Davide.

    Franca, We have been thinking of you these past weeks. I only had the opportunity to meet and speak with Paul a few times but he left me with an impression of warmth, kindness and a sense of humour. I was so happy you found each other. Our deepest condolences to you- Franca and all of Paul's family and friends. Leigh-Anne & Tom Flynn

    Leigh-Anne Flynn14 Jun 2020

    My deepest condolences to Franca and familly I only met Paul a few times but he was a person who left an impression on you . I will forever remember his smiling face easy conversations and laughter

    Camillo D'Angelo14 Jun 2020

    What a beautiful celebration of life. Our family along with the Totti's and a few others were a group of families without extended family in Canada that got together for holidays etc. Paul was usually the instigator of whatever shenanigans were going on wherever the "kids" were hanging out. I'm the same age as Mark, so 5 years younger than Paul,...

    Rhian Evans15 Jun 2020

    To Franca and her family and all of Paul's family and friends, we are very sorry for your great loss. Thank you for inviting us to share in Paul's celebration of life. We were so moved by the stories and photos you all shared. Paul clearly lived a life so many of us aspire to live. He followed his passions and lived freely and on his own terms. ...

    Ann Marie Cerio16 Jun 2020

    Paul was a dear friend. Our mothers met at the Ottawa Civic Hospital a day or two before we were due—the same day, June 7, 1970. I was born a few hours into June 8. My family was already living on Oakburn Road in Glen Cairn, and a few weeks later, the Tottis moved in across the street, a few doors down. Paul and I liked to say we knew each other be...

    Julie McArthur22 Jun 2020
    22 Jun 2020

    Yuriko Murohashi Paul, he was nice. He was really nice. He liked people. He accepted us with smile. I remember a day we meet him first time. He picked up us the bus station. He had a beautiful smile. My daughter was happy to see him. My memory with him will not fade forever. He is still alive in my heart. I can’t accept yet. I sincerely appreciate to meet him. I wanted to invite him to Japan. I wanted to show him my daughter growing. Thank you Paul for having time with us. Thank you.

    Hi Soren! Would you be up for another bike ride with Julian sometime soon? The weather has finally gotten nice again!

    Jen Budney22 Jun 2020