In the early hours of September 3, Jasper Echo Toms passed away unexpectedly a week before his 17th birthday. He would have started his junior year at Ingraham High School the next day. Jasper was born in Seattle on September 12, 2002. He is survived by his mother, Laura Baumwall, his father, Peter Toms, his sister, Zsa Zsa Belle Toms, many aunts, ...more

In the spirit of keeping Jasper's memory alive, contributions can be made to Jasper Echo Toms Giving Fund #1173588 Fidelity Charitable, PO Box 770001, Cincinnati, OH 45277

One of my earliest memories of Jasper was at our yearly outdoor Yom Kippur gathering. It was raining outside, so we relocated to Yael's living room. Jasper was probably about two years old. Most kids at that age are just starting to string sentences together and that was what I assumed about Jasper... until he opened his mouth and began to speak! I...more

Dearest Laura, Zsa Zsa and family, my heart grieves with you all over the loss of your wonderful Jasper. My tears flow, but I promise I will keep the image of the laughing star alive in my heart always. May heaven and our prayers comfort you. Sending forever and always love, Penny Stevens (Baumwall)

Love you always, bright eyes, laughing, inquisitive Jasper Toms.

To Laura and her family, I am so very sorry for the loss of your dear Jasper. My heart goes out to all of you.

I loved Jasper and will miss him for the rest of my life.

There are no words.... my thoughts, heart and prayers are with each of you. Jasper will live forever in your hearts.

I'm so sorry for your loss Laura. We are all sending you so much love.

Sending Love from the depths of my heart. I will always remember the sparkle in his eye and his beautiful smile, a reflection of his beautiful soul.

Dear Laura - I'm so, so sorry. I'm sending you love, healing energy and a big hug. I feel like I got to know Jasper and your deep love for him through the stories and photos and texts you've shared with me and I mourn the loss of such a vibrant spirit. I'm always here for whatever you need, please know that. Lots of love, Polly

I am thinking of you and remembering Jasper and all his sweet, loving ways. I am nearby anytime you need a hug, a walk, or a shoulder to lean on and I am sending you much love. XO

Jasper will never be forgotten. The loss is unbelievable but he will always be alive in our hearts. He was extraordinary, soulful, and beautiful. I loved listening to him read from the Haggadah at Passover or watching him get piggy back rides from Mason. His time with us was far too brief. I love you Laura, Zsa Zsa and Jasper. We will always hold y...more

Sending love.

I know your world is forever changed and left with only memories. I pray that all the happy ones bring you and Zsa Zsa comfort in time. Sending my love

what an incredibly accomplished young man. i am profoundly sad for the family.

Such a unique and magical person I feel so honored to have met. Heart is with you Laura, Zsa Zsa and the rest of his family and friends

Laura, my heart goes out to you and your family. Sending you hugs, love and healing thoughts for you to draw on anytime you need it!

Please know that so many of us in the Wallingford community are thinking of you all and holding you--and your pain--in our hearts. Both my kids knew Jasper from school (JSIS, Hamilton, Lincoln and Ingraham.) Ella and Ben describe him as super creative, warm, kind and hilarious. Your son will not be forgotten.

Laura and Zsa Zsa, with sad hearts we mourn with you, your great loss, your beloved Jasper. May the community of love envelop you and God's arms hold you, bring comfort and peace even as we do the same. Love, Carmen and Rob

Such a sweet being Jasper was. The few times we met, he was smiling, kind and engaged in reading, curled up by his mom or sister. How precious life is and the opportunities we have to share this dream with each other. We never know for how long. May his spirit remind us always, to be open, kind and loving with each other. Laura, Zsa Zsa & ...more

Happy Birthday, Jasper! You were one of Leana's first kindergarten friends. We will always remember you and keep you in our hearts as we had the opportunity to watch you grow through middle and high school. Your smile and joy of life were infectious. Love to Laura and Zsa Zsa. May the memories of Jasper warm your hearts and help you carry on.

Laura, I did not know Jasper but I am sure that, being your son, he was full of joy and spark. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I cannot even imagine it. I am sending you love and hugs and look forward to seeing you where I can share in your sorrow and celebration of Jasper's life.

Laura - I can't begin to tell you how profoundly sad we are to hear about Jasper. He made me laugh every single time I saw him. Sweet, funny, quirky, curious... He will be so missed. We are thinking of you and sending love.

Jasper was a shining light, unlike any other. We are heartbroken to hear of his passing, and comforted with our memories of his brilliance. Love from our family to Laura, Zsa Zsa and Peter.

Laura, I am so sorry. My deepest sympathy. My thoughts are with you.

Last night I attended the memorial for Jasper "Jazzy" Echo Toms. It would have been his 17th birthday. My friend Peter, his father, said, "This was not part of the plan." I cannot imagine the pain his family must be suffering. Parents are not meant to outlive their children. My friend Laura, his mother, asked us to keep him alive by telling our s...more

Laura, I am overwhelmed with grief for you and your family reading this sad news this morning about Jasper. Mark and i are both sending you so much love. Joanna

Dearest Laura and Zsa Zsa: Our deepest sympathies on your loss of dear Jasper, who will always be remembered as a bright, interesting and delightful young man. Bug hugs from Judy, Sam and Jon (The Virginia Greens)

Loving sympathy to those who loved him.

We are so sorry for your loss, and you are in our thoughts. In sympathy, Jason and Evelyn

A glittering comet, a brilliant clown, a boy/man who lead with his heart. Jasper's generous spirit was welcoming to all who were lucky enough to be in his quietly dazzling orbit. We will always hold him dear and joyful in our minds, his smile imprinted on our hearts. All love & solace to you, Laura, Zsa Zsa, and Peter. ~Allison, Steven, Ruby, & Abr...more

I am heartbroken to hear about the loss of Jasper. My heart goes out to Laura, Zsa Zsa and your friends and family. Please let me know if there is anything I could do to support you.

I had a lovely conversation with Jasper at a Seafair party this August. I was struck by how quickly he was able to connect and have a deep and meaningful conversation with a “grown-up”while still bringing a smile and laughter to the interaction - he had such presence and likability. Seeing him with his sister too, how close they were...made me asp...more

Sending love & positive energy to you & your family <3

Laura - Lots of love and prayers being sent to you, your family and your friends through this time.

I am so sorry for the loss of sweet, sweet Jasper. I have such fond memories of him and Hank and all the preschool kids in Teacher Tom and Teacher Peg’s classes. Laura, Peter and Zsa Zsa - I am holding you all close to my heart and sending so much love your way. Allison Eva (and Hank Wesson and the Wesson family)

Laura, I’m saddened to hear of your loss. I didn’t know Jasper well, but each time I saw him he brought a smile to my face. I was especially warmed by seeing his closeness to you and Zsa Zsa. My heart is with you and your family as you grieve this tremendous loss.

Laura, Peter and Zsa Zsa, we have wonderful memories of Jasper from 4th and 5th grade at Lincoln. Our son Aaron Clark Banse was a good friend of his and I remember Jasper being here for a birthday party where I immediately noted his charisma by the way in which the other boys would call his name with such love and fondness. (And we loved his nickna...more

I guess I knew Jasper for quite a while. We always happened to be close, going from all the way in elementary school to high school at Ingraham. We even had all 6 of our classes together last year. What even are the odds of that? Every day when id get up and walk to the 44 bus stop to go to school, he was there. When I got on the E line to return h...more

Jasper, Zsa Zsa and Laura have been in our lives for a long time. We have shared some wonderful festival time and other celebrations, something that this family beautifully shares with a very big community. We have seen him grow up since a kid and he often reminded me of my own witty, funny, loving, talented son ......a type of Renaissance, Indigo ...more

I just learned of Jasper's passing yesterday. My heart goes out to you. I can only imagine the depths of pain and sorrow the loss of a child brings. You have my deepest sympathies.

Laura, Zsa Zsa I am sorry beyond comprehension for your lose. A trauma no parent or sibling, should experience. I am grateful you were able to be a guest so many years ago at the lake cabin in NY. Sorry I did not get to be closer friends with your extraordinary young man Jasper. I believe Laura you are stronger than I could ever be. My heart opens ...more