James Alexander Lam

You are and always will be the love of my life. My heart physically hurts now that you are not with me, but I know you are around me giving me the strength I need to endure this. The children and I have planned a beautiful tribute to celebrate your life. I hope your dad has made you soup, and that you and Bernard are having a ball being to...more

🕯 Mrs Michelle Lam lit a candle I love you so much Mr Lam.......WHY?????? Grrrrr :'(

🕯 Rhiana Sofronoff lit a candle I miss you everyday Dad. I wish you could meet your Grandson, he's amazing like you. And he farts really loudly, like you. Love you so much.

🕯 Rhiana Sofronoff lit a candle Love you Papa. Memphis is getting so big now. He’s so beautiful, you would absolutely adore him. He is VERY cheeky; he definitely gets that from you. I still feel like my heart is broken without you here. I thought the pain would go away but it doesn’t, I’ve just gotten used to it. Miss you every day, Dad. ...more

🕯 Chantelle Pithie lit a candle Hay Dad Life is pretty hard for me at the moment. I wish you were here, just to chat too. I wish I knew what I could do to make my heart hurt less. The girls are happy and healthy, Joel and I are great.... 10 years together almost. But I cannot stop the bad energy in me. Miss you, love you.

🕯 Rhiana Sofronoff lit a candle Happy Birthday Daddy. I don’t know what to say today.. I just need you here. Life feels like it’s too hard without you, sometimes. I love you so, so much.

🕯 Rhiana Sofronoff lit a candle Hey Daddy, You have another grandbaby. Her name is Calliope Fay. She’s gorgeous. I had a photo of you right next to me when I had her, just like with Memphis. You gave me strength. God, I miss you. Most of the time I try real hard not to think too much about you. It sends me to a dark place because you aren’t ...more

Hay Dad How's the afterlife? We miss you heaps. Tillie just turned 5, which means it's been 5 years and 9 months since you left us. I hope you aren't disappointed in us all and the paths our lives have gone. Love you lots.