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    Celebrating the life of

    Deanna Dames

    25 Mar 1966 - 12 Jun 2022

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    I first met Deanna when she started working at GE Capital Computer Leasing and we became fast friends. We had the good fortune of going on a few trips together including a visit to San Diego when she moved there briefly. Luckily, she came to her senses and returned to SF. We traveled the world together, Mexico, Italy, New Orleans, and I have m...

    Susan DiJohnson22 Jun 27
    25 May 1991Scripps College

    Katelyn Klapper Leave it to Deanna to make a sweet Laura Ashley bridesmaid dress look stunning! Kevin and I got married on Elm Tree Lawn at Scripps College, where I met Deanna in the first week of her freshman year.

    Katelyn K. Katelyn, Deanna, Kori Rogers
    Jun 1991San Diego, CA, United States

    Mimi Sparrow Hank and I visited Deanna and Ron shortly after they moved to San Diego from SF

    Susan D. Deanna, Ron, Susan DiJohnson and Hank Hodes
    Aug 1996Sudbury, MA, United States

    Katelyn Klapper Deanna visited us several times in the late 90's and she had a sweet spot for all of my kids. Here she is with Meghan, my oldest.

    Dec 1997

    Susan DiJohnson A company holiday party, December 1997

    1999Sudbury, MA, United States

    Katelyn Klapper So many of my photos of Deanna are stashed away in college albums, but I have had this picture (1999?) on my desk for years. This was at our house in Sudbury, MA during a fall trip that Deanna made to visit our family. Somewhere I have great picture of Deanna dressed up with my daughter as good witches for Halloween...

    Sep 2002Tuscany, Italy

    Mimi Sparrow Italy around 2002? Deanna rented an amazing apartment in Florence and invited a bunch of us to vacation with her. Outstanding trip!

    Katelyn K. And what a view we had from that apartment! I love this picture as I don't have as many of the two of us together after 2002. Thanks for po...
    Mimi S. I know -- it is great of both of you! Very fun trip!
    Sep 2002

    Susan DiJohnson Another picture from our trip to Italy. Can you see why the Italian men were in a frenzy? I remember a car stopping mid-block when we were walking down the street.

    Katelyn K. This was such a fun trip. Thanks for posting these, Susan.
    28 Sep 2003Florence, Italy

    Katelyn Klapper I finally figured out that our girls trip to Florence was in 2003. No pictures of all of us together, but I found this gem of Deanna along the Arno.

    5 Dec 2005San Francisco, CA, United States

    Stephenie Pang Deanna and I became friends after working together at Pacific Bell Wireless. I always preferred her as a blonde and told her so many times. Red was okay, brunette, 'eh, not so much, but blonde, what a bombshell. She always reminded me of Marilyn Monroe. She was sassy, stylish, smart, sexy, savvy, sweet, selective, striking, self-assured, sophisticated, spirited, successful, and supportive. I remember the goods time celebrating holidays at her home in Oakland/Piedmont with Max and friends, watching fireworks in SF from her loft, shopping in SF and walking the Castro. Her boyfriends came and went, but her friends were forever. Deanna could always light up a room. Her energy was contagious and inspiring. This picture is of her meeting my then boyfriend, now husband, Tony. She was grilling him a bit for my sake to see what he was made of. Quite an endearing memory for me, but there are so many. You left our lives, but you'll never leave our hearts. I hope you're somewhere planning a party, celebrating a moment with new friends, and receiving all the love you deserve my friend. Stephenie

    Susan D. Thank you Stephenie, for sharing this beautiful memory of our lovely friend.
    6 Aug 2011Santa Cruz, CA, United States

    Sandy Hawke I don't have any photos of Deanna to share, other than one from my wedding 11 years ago this summer. Deanna and I worked together very briefly but it was during this very happy time in my life. Deanna was such a HUGE help to me before, during, and after my wedding - she found the perfect honeymoon spot for us, spotted the perfect fancy shoes for me to wear, and was smiling brighter than the shiniest light-bulb during our ceremony. Plus, I knew she would keep everything together at work while I was away on the honeymoon she helped me plan! Deanna is a brilliant spirit and makes everything better just by being there. She will be missed.

    4 Apr 2015Belize

    Enoch Dames Deanna organized a trip to Belize for us and we had a such a wonderful time there for a week. Not shown here is Rebekah J.

    8 Aug 2015San Francisco, CA, United States

    Mimi Sparrow Deanna hanging out with Diego on her back porch on Winfield in Bernal -- one of her favorite places.

    23 Aug 2015San Francisco, CA, United States

    Mimi Sparrow Deanna's house on Winfield in Bernal was gorgeous! She had such an eye for decorating and had the skills to match it.

    Heather H. That house and her garden were so beautiful!
    Stephenie P. Those stairs always scared me! But my the view!
    6 Sep 2015San Francisco, CA, United States

    Mimi Sparrow Hanging out in Dogpatch on a gorgeous sunny day! With Heather Howland.

    Heather H. I had just moved to San Francisco from the east coast --- Deanna made sure I wasn't sitting around all by myself in a new city where I didn'...
    Heather H. And I think this is when I first met Ms Mimi Sparrow!
    22 Mar 2016Portland, OR, United States

    Mimi Sparrow I am a Bruce fanatic so D got us tix to see him at the Moda Center in Portland. So much fun!!

    10 Sep 2016San Francisco, CA, United States

    Mimi Sparrow Deanna got us signed up for the Peak2Peak Walk in 2016. Deanna knew we had to register in advance as it always sells out quickly. We had a great walk all over SF and saw so many cool hidden spots in the city! With Heather Howland.

    Heather H. This hike was great! Walking around this city is a workout! We also got to see the "other" most crookedest street (Vermont St) in SF.
    2017OR, United States

    Mimi Sparrow Deanna gave Diego a great life. She LOVED her dogs!!! She especially loved taking Diego to the beach.

    14 Feb 2017

    Kelly Lanspa I don't have any pictures of Deanna but I have some of the wonderful things she did for me. She was so generous. Here is a card she sent me on Valentines Day along with a lipstick which has become my absolute favorite!!

    14 Mar 2019Portland, OR, United States

    Mimi Sparrow Bailey nestled in!

    1 Apr 2019

    Kelly Lanspa Here is a picture of the amazing feast Deanna made for my partner and I when we were thinking of moving to Portland. She was so sweet and generous, she gave us a cooler to take with us for our hiking trips and some other goodies.

    Mimi S. That looks like a Deanna Feast!! Yum. Lucky you! She was an amazing chef and hostess.
    Stephenie P. Oh yeah! The food Deanna could whip up was amazing!
    20 Dec 2019

    Mimi Sparrow

    I worked with Deanna Dames as a freelance Web Developer. When I heard the news of her death, it was more than a shock to me. There was a time when I was having chat and call on regularly basis. She was very kind and honest. She always paid me extra amount that I expected. Rest In Peace, Deanna.

    Basit Ali2 Feb 2022
    1 Jun 2022Portland, OR, United States

    Mimi Sparrow Deanna's professional accomplishments were amazing! She had recently updated her resume and was thinking of returning to the corporate world in Marketing and Communications. As you can see, her resume is impressive!

    21 Jul 2022Portland, OR, United States

    Mimi Sparrow Deanna's pupper Bailey was adopted by a wonderful couple in Portland. He looks awfully happy with his new family!

    Monika G. I am so happy for Bailey!
    28 Sep 2022

    Katelyn Klapper Deanna, everywhere I look in my house, I see you. From the art you purchased for me (or we purchased together!), to the ceramics, cards and art you made for me, I have you in virtually every room in house. In my closet there are Deanna hand-me-downs (which were always the best to get!) and a beautiful sari-made skirt you got me for my birthday. In my Christmas box there is the SF trolly ornament you got for the kids. In my kitchen gadget drawer there are several Sur La Table give-aways that you sent my way. In my bookshelf are some of the titles that we traded in recent years as we nudged each other to read. And, on my phone is the last text you sent me in June when we talked about how much you hated to read fantasy. I hope you know how much I love you.

    26 Mar 2023San Francisco, CA, United States

    Mimi Sparrow Thinking of Deanna so much this weekend. Yesterday was Deannas' birthday and I wanted to share these two photos of D and Max in her S.F. loft. These were some of my favorite photos. She is greatly missed!

    21 Apr 2023

    Aaron Dames Tribute to Aunt D