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    Celebrating the life of

    Dr. Bhanu Gandhi

    09 May 1938 - 31 Dec 2020

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    1 Jan 1960Calcutta, OH, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu's parents Nirmala and Amidas Vora in Calcutta

    2 Mar 1968Mumbai, MH, India

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu married Pravin.

    12 Feb 1969Germany

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu passed her exam to become a doctor in the United States one month before giving birth to Bharat.

    13 Mar 1969Germany

    Abby & Sunil Bharat was born

    28 Jun 1975New York, NY, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu gave birth to Sunil

    1 Mar 1978New York, NY, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu and Sunil staying warm at a ski area in New England.

    1 Jan 1981Manhasset Hills, NY, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu and Pravin entertaining at their home in Manhasset Hills, New York

    1 Jan 1983Mumbai, MH, India

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu, Bharat, and Sunil enjoying Juhu Beach.

    1 Jan 1983Manhasset Hills, NY, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu taking photos of Bharat and Sunil shoveling the driveway in Manhasset Hills, New York. Check out the "B" on her belt buckle!

    1 Jan 1984Mumbai, MH, India

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu, Bharat, and Sunil in Mumbai.

    1 Jan 1985Vadodara, GJ, India

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu's children Bharat and Sunil visiting with cousins Bhavesh and Ketan.

    1 Jun 1987Old Brookville, NY, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu at home in Old Brookville, New York

    1 Jan 1989Vadodara, GJ, India

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu visiting Anumasi and Ba in Vadodara, India

    1 Jan 1994Weston, MA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu enjoying time with Sunil during a visit home from Stanford.

    I got to know and spend time with Bhanu auntie when I lived in Boston for medical school. She would invite me over to her nearby home. I always enjoyed my time with her. I liked her warm, gravelly voice. She was funny, open-minded, a happy soul with a twinkle in her eye and, of course, very independent and very capable. I was impressed by the life ...

    Ami Goradia1999

    Bhanu and I co-grandmothered Kiran and Julian. Her gracious manner and keen sense of humor made it easy to share our children and grandchildren. We enjoyed talking about how our lives unfolded, about spirituality, medicine and education, and about our shared love for playing basketball. We celebrated large and small family celebrations together. I...

    Elizabeth Reyes2004
    9 Sep 2006Watsonville, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu celebrates the wedding of her son Sunil Gandhi and Abby Reyes

    9 Sep 2006Watsonville, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu celebrates the wedding of her son Sunil Gandhi and Abby Reyes

    9 Sep 2006Watsonville, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu celebrates the wedding of her son Sunil Gandhi and Abby Reyes

    9 Sep 2006Watsonville, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu celebrates the wedding of her son Sunil Gandhi and Abby Reyes

    9 Sep 2006Watsonville, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu celebrates the wedding of her son Sunil Gandhi and Abby Reyes

    9 Sep 2006Watsonville, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu celebrates the wedding of her son Sunil Gandhi and Abby Reyes

    4 May 2007San Francisco, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu's first grandson, Kiran Reyes Gandhi, was born to happy parents Sunil Gandhi and Abby Reyes

    28 Dec 2008San Francisco, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu's second grandson, Julian Reyes Gandhi, was born to happy parents Sunil Gandhi and Abby Reyes

    28 Jun 2009San Francisco, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu enjoying time with grandson Kiran while visiting San Francisco for Sunil's birthday

    26 Nov 2009San Francisco, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu enjoying time with grandson Julian Gandhi on a Thanksgiving visit to San Francisco

    From Dr. Caroline Meeks: Dearest dear Sunil, [ ] I sit here grief struck At the magnitude of your loss. [ ] She was... so good at expressing her independence as a thinking being… She is and was a role model of what we might strive for. My memory of her was Primarily from the extended Thanksgiving break we shared together in San Diego. She showed m...

    Abby & Sunil28 Nov 2010
    28 Apr 2012Irvine, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu visiting California to celebrate Kiran's 4th birthday in the park.

    Amy P. I remember this day! And that gorgeous cake!
    11 May 2013Irvine, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Celebrating grandson Kiran Gandhi's 5th birthday.

    28 Jun 2013Irvine, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Visiting the University of California, Irvine, campus for Sunil's birthday

    5 May 2014San Jose, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu, Bharat, and Sunil attending the wedding of Anumami and Dineshmama's son Adi.

    19 Dec 2014Houston, TX, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu congratulating Deepika Goradia on her daughter Ritu's wedding.

    20 Dec 2014Houston, TX, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu, Anumami, Dineshmama, and Sunil attending the wedding of Ritu Goradia.

    From Saroj Dave: Hello Sunil -Abby. Very sorry and sad news of ur mom passing away. I have very fond of memories of Our cruising together in S. America. I was her room partner... I remember coming back after our trip to back home I was living very near by...We all had lunch many good times together and her contribution to our India communities was...

    Abby & Sunil1 Jan 2015
    28 Sep 2015Newport Beach, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu with Betsy Reyes, mother of daughter-in-law Abby Reyes, celebrating Abby's birthday

    2017Irvine, CA, United States

    Jason Reyes Here is Bhanu with a big smile at Nelson and Betsy's birthday celebration in Irvine. We always enjoyed visiting with Bhanu on our trips to California and we will miss her dearly upon our return. Sending lots of love to all the Gandhi family! Love, Jason and Amelia

    1 Mar 2017Irvine, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu with grandsons Kiran and Julian Gandhi, helping Julian make pompoms to sell for his 3rd grade business.

    29 Apr 2017Irvine, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu giving a toast at the joint 75th birthday celebration of daughter-in-law Abby Reyes' parents, Betsy and Nelson Reyes.

    4 May 2017Costa Mesa, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Jointly celebrating the birthdays of Bhanu and grandson Kiran Gandhi together with the Reyes family, including Abby's brother Jason

    4 May 2018Irvine, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu with Betsy Reyes, the mother of daughter-in-law Abby Reyes

    22 May 2018Newport Beach, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu and Sunil celebrating Sunil's tenure at the University of California, Irvine.

    17 Jun 2018Newport Beach, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu celebrates Sunil's birthday with the Reyes family.

    28 Jul 2018Newport Beach, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Celebrating Bhanu's 80th birthday with Anumami, Bhanumasi, and Nupur.

    28 Jul 2018Newport Beach, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu's family and friends gather to celebrate Bhanu's 80th birthday

    28 Jul 2018Newport Beach, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu enjoying time with grandson Kiran Reyes Gandhi

    We will always remember Bhanu aunty's radiant, ever-present smile and warmth that she gifted everyone she greeted and met. Her generosity of heart, (bringing us trays of delicious jalebi, dhoklas or samosas) to add to the celebration of festivals at our home will be fresh in our hearts everytime we gather. We will cherish her zest for life, hope an...

    Nandini Narayanan2019
    12 May 2019Irvine, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Mother's Day and Bhanu's birthday celebration at Sunil and Abby's house

    25 Dec 2019Irvine, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Bhanu celebrating the holidays with the Reyes family at Sunil and Abby's house

    26 Dec 2020Laguna Woods, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Our last photo of Bhanu in her home, a few days before she passed away. Wearing her new pink cashmere cardigan.

    I'm so sorry for your loss in this especially difficult pandemic-time. I offer my condolences to the whole family and circle of connections on the loss of a mother, grandmother, friend, and beloved. Thank you for sharing these pictures and memories with your larger community and allowing us to hold this space of commemoration and loss with you. Jea...

    Jeanne Scheper4 Jan 2021

    I had the privilege of meeting Bhanu about 3 yrs ago when I joined India Club of Laguna Woods. An elegant lady always ready to help and committed to her responsibilities no matter what! Almost a fixture of India Club, she will be missed by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing her. May her soul Rest In Peace. Love you Bhanu♥️🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

    Shashi Jalota4 Jan 2021

    Dear Sunil, I'm so sorry to hear about your mother's passing. It was so nice to chat with her when she came to Nandini's place. Our heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. Sundari & Velu

    Sundari Velayudhan4 Jan 2021

    We are so sorry for your loss. We are honored that we were able to meet her over the years. Thank you for including us and my in-laws in those memories and new home blessings. Always in our thoughts and much love to you all, Amy and Jay

    Amy P4 Jan 2021

    From Ron and Sherie: Dear Sunil, It was with great sadness that we heard about the demise of your beloved mother...In Bhagvad Geeta, on the battlefield of Kurukshetra, Lord Krishna told Arjuna the Archer and one of the bravest warriors: [ ] “Just as death is certain to those that are born, life is also certain to those that are dead. This is the la...

    Abby & Sunil4 Jan 2021
    5 Jan 2021Laguna Woods, CA

    Nelson Reyes A Haiku plus a couplet, a tanka, for Bhanu, a remembrance, when I told her about my coming up boat trip with Betsy in San Diego, California during my high school classmates reunion in September 2014. She gave me a small bottle of small pills she guaranteed to take the edge of anxiety and dizziness. And it did: tanka and she said take this out of the ancient wisdom appeared before me aid to calm fear of sea wave pills to get better be brave May you Rest In Peace my dear friend Bhanu, dear mother of my son-in-law Sunil and loving Grsndma to Kiran and Julian, our beloved grandsons. Also, below is an excerpt from my poem written in January 2017, that touched on the certainty of death and the peace and blessings that come with it in acceptance: A Portal of Graces As sure as life begins twin death is there... A sad day for us all the loss of a beloved person Life we took always there the smiles upon us graced... Solace we get from family and friends In times of deep distress this loss has turned Binds us together evermore as we grief and Accept the Graces of life given us in death we returned *** Nelson D Reyes, Abby’s Dad

    Abby &. Thank you, Dad, for these words and this photo. I appreciate your poetry.

    We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother, Sunil. I remember first meeting your mother back in 2002 in Woods Hole and eating the pani puri she brought. She was such a warm and generous woman and I am so grateful I knew her. We are wishing you all of our love at this difficult time. Damian, Luong, Kai and Max

    Damian Wheeler6 Jan 2021

    Bhanumasi as we called her. Masi means like a mother. She was like a mother to me. She was always cheerful. I still remember the days when she used to visit India. Masi, my mother in law, ( her elder sister and myself we would sit and chat and have lots of fun. After my mother -in-laws death I would always look up on her and I would al...

    ketki gandhi6 Jan 2021

    Dr. Bhanuben She was our elder sister who always cared and welcomed to her house at New York irrespective of her busy schedule and treated us with love to and all my brothers Anil, Haresh and Dinesh. During beginning in 1981 to 1983 my many weekends were at her New Hyde Park house. She and Pravinkumar were very close to us so whenever she visit...

    Yogesh Goradia7 Jan 2021
    1 Jan 2022Laguna Woods, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Read more about Bhanu's remarkable life in her obituary. This is page 2 of 2.

    2 Jan 2022Laguna Woods, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil Read more about Bhanu's remarkable life in her obituary. This is page 1 of 2.

    3 Jan 2022Laguna Woods, CA, United States

    Abby & Sunil In loving memory.