Celebrating the life of

Aidan James O'Brien

03 Mar 2003 - 18 Feb 2025

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Let this page serve to honor and memorialize our dear friend Aidan James O’Brien. Aidan was born on March 3, 2003, and recently passed away on February 18, 2025. Though he was taken suddenly from his family, friends, and community, it is his life that is remarkable and impactful. From a young age, Aidan was empathic to others, was passionate about nature, and showed joy in the teamwork of sports ... more

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1 Sep 2015

Kiley Eggebraaten First day of middle school and Graduation party

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Patti Such a good sport with all of the girls at the lake!

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Patti Trinity Lutheran pre school

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11 Jul 2018

Matt Simms Cross Country camp - White Pass. Hill climb with the squad in the books. Respect for the strength it took to get up there.

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10 Jun 2021

Matt Simms High school graduation parade around South Whidbey. AO and the boys.

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10 Jun 2021

Matt Simms High school graduation parade with the boys about to fill the jeep.

Kiley E. What a group of handsome young men❤️

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20 Feb 2025

Matt Simms AO the Biochemist

Kiley E. What an achievement!

Ashleigh T. I enjoyed learning about Aidan's research through our discussions after my CHEM 321 class. He was such a joy to interact with - caring, inqu...

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13 Mar 2021

Matt Simms AO jumping in Lake Washington after Fulton said not to jump in Lake Washington but hey that was a hard Sand Point race and the lake water feels good!

Robert . Haha! The thing of it was, as i recall Fulton didn’t catch AO doing it; he caught Sophia after she followed Aidan’s lead! 😂

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11 May 2021

Matt Simms XC stars play soccer at an elite level too who knew

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9 Oct 2019

Matt Simms AO and AD hammering on that straightaway in the woods on our course. IYKYK.

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9 Jul 2019

Matt Simms World travelers all smiles couldn’t find a better set of international representatives of our school and our island than these.

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8 Dec 2018

Matt Simms Birthday hike to Beckler Peak near Stevens Pass.

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Patti

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Patti

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Patti

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Patti

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4 Jul 2014

Dana Moffett So many beautiful memories. Nyeredzi, shining stars, was the name of Aiden and Ian’s marimba group. ♥️♥️♥️

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23 Oct 2020

Matt Simms The road to a first ever state championship started here…

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19 Jun 2019

Matt Simms Preseason Cross Country team training run to the top of Mount Si, and then to the way higher top of Mount Si, and then out onto the knife-edge ridge.

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10 Jun 2016

Jodie Braun Aidan was a shining star… just like the name of his marimba group Nyredzi.

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Jamie Zundel Birthday party fun!

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20 Oct 2016

Matt Simms AO with the LMS Cross Country squad at the Cascade League Championships in the cold and mud and pouring rain at Arlington. With that smile…

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16 Jun 2017

Matt Simms LMS Graduation, with AO in front of the bush in the back row at right next to Sterling and Magnus. An amazing class of incredible young adults.

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28 Sep 2015

Matt Simms Looking up at the LMS track team getting ready to race with that pure AO smile shining right back down

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Tom Donnelly Winter break at Whistler

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Kate Grossman McVay

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Kate Grossman McVay

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Kate Grossman McVay

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Kate Grossman McVay

Kate G. Science Fair 2016?

Susan . Rock stars!

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Kate Grossman McVay

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Kate Grossman McVay

Kate G. A little soccer when Heng the international student from China visited in 7th grade. He and AO made a nice connection.

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Kate Grossman McVay

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Mar 2015

Rosie Donnelly The Aidans

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Rosie Donnelly 8th grade graduation

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Rosie Donnelly

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Rosie Donnelly A. O. and A.D. birthday at the Machine Shop.

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Rosie Donnelly The indoor soccer birthday

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Rosie Donnelly No longer sure why we are playing pin the eyes on the bat at their 6th birthday, but AO sure is cute!

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Rosie Donnelly More of the Machine Shop birthday

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Rosie Donnelly Helping Lori at the marina

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12 2023

Rosie Donnelly Being ridiculous as usual, just at Whistler.

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Rosie Donnelly The beginning of the pack - middle school track

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Rosie Donnelly Before they were runners...

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Rosie Donnelly

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2021

Reilly McVay Party

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Reilly McVay

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Annie Philp Some of my favorite memories, making music and performing together.

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2019

Sammi Daly europe trip 2019 - the girls picked out outfits for the guys

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Sammi Daly

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2019

Sammi Daly brunch in london

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2019

Sammi Daly

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Netty Jurriaans

Robert . I think Aidan lost his phone on this boat ride??

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Kiley E. Such a great picture!

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16 Jun 2021

Matt Simms AO and the boys. First time in school history. Respect. Not just given. Earned.

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JMRKEKG

3 Apr 2022

Matt Simms AO and Tommy at the UW Ultimate tournament, with AO taking the time to come show some Island love and then sharing his favorite place on the Ave.

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12 Jun 2021

Matt Simms A graduation smile

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8 Jun 2021

Matt Simms Movie night at the drive ins

Kiley E. What a great capture! Epic Whidbey tradition.

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28 Apr 2021

Matt Simms AO working the midfield with his ball skills and that calm confidence vs a tough Overlake squad

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3 Apr 2021

Matt Simms AO putting in work on the way to a Conference championship against a stacked field of tough teams. Respect.

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JMR

6 Mar 2021

Matt Simms AO taking it through the sharks teeth at a tough league meet at Magnuson. Hilly and windy course and serious competition and he took it all on.

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JMRQ

3 Oct 2020

Matt Simms AO and the squad taking on the unique challenge of facing the entire world in the Microsoft Virtual 5k. With thanks to Bob for making it happen.

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RDJMBGRKELP

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14 Sep 2015

Matt Simms When you take a lot of pictures, sometimes you get lucky. AO and Luc.

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Kiley Eggebraaten Group camping at South Whidbey State Park! Photo credit goes to Bob

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Kiley Eggebraaten 1st day of Kindergarten-1st day of Middle School-High School Graduation Party❤️

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11 Dec 2012

Kiley Eggebraaten Hope Lodge

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Kiley Eggebraaten Beach Day!

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RMSLP

16 Feb 2008

Kiley Eggebraaten Birthday Party!

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RDJMRMS

4 Sep 2008

Kiley Eggebraaten First day of Kindergarten. I love how Aidan is blushing at the fact that Maddie is holding his hand, so sweet

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6 Jun 2009

Kiley Eggebraaten Lauren and Madeline's 6th Birthday Party

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3 Apr 2008

Kiley Eggebraaten Grapes at the beach

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28 Mar 2008

Kiley Eggebraaten Aidan's 5th Birthday Party

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RMSLP

10 Feb 2006

Kiley Eggebraaten Winter bubbles

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RMSKG

10 Feb 2006

Kiley Eggebraaten Bubble Time at Freeland Park

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16 Mar 2007

Kiley Eggebraaten At the Wiggles Concert in Everett

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27 Oct 2007

Kiley Eggebraaten those eyes!

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Kiley Eggebraaten Drama Camp in the Woods

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Kiley Eggebraaten Just hanging out

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RDLBGRMSES

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1 Sep 2013

Kiley Eggebraaten Group Camp at SW State Park

Robert . Whidbey Wildlings!!

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7 Dec 2019

Kiley Eggebraaten White elephant gift exchange 2019

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RDLJMRMSKG

12 Jan 2008

Kiley Eggebraaten Hanging with the ladies ;)

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RDJMBGRMSMS

17 Aug 2007

Kiley Eggebraaten Island County Fair!

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17 Aug 2007

Kiley Eggebraaten Rocket ride with Madeline

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RDJMRTDKELP

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8 Dec 2018

Matt Simms With Cooper up a tree near Beckler Peak, Stevens Pass region.

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JMRKELP

17 Oct 2019

Matt Simms Sandwiched by Kings no matter AO you got this

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JMSRLP

17 Oct 2019

Matt Simms Preston says it’s the shoes. Must be the shoes. Hint: the shoes come in those yellow bags.

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JMSR

26 Oct 2019

Matt Simms AO and the rest of the thundering herd coming off the start line at Magnuson.

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24 Aug 2019

Matt Simms Ragnar Relay at Mount Rainier. AO and the squad spent 24 long hours covering 125 miles and 25,000’ of elevation gain. Finish? 2nd out of 100+ teams.

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JMRKELPRM

14 Jul 2019

Matt Simms Out adventuring. Somewhere in the wilds of Scotland. At least it looks like Scotland.

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JMRRM

9 May 2019

Matt Simms AO and the SWHS soccer squad stopping at Five Guys. IYKYK.

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4 May 2019

Matt Simms AO exuding calm despite pressure in the midfield

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JMBGJRTDKE

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4 May 2019

Matt Simms AO with the solid air game vs. Kings. Respect.

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2020

Reilly McVay Black and white ball

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Laila

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Laila Whistler

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Audrey Gmerek Drama Camp

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Audrey Gmerek Hope Lodge

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JMBGRMSKELP

+ 1

Laila Science Fair

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Audrey Gmerek Thanksgiving

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Laila

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Audrey Gmerek Hope Lodge 2012

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Audrey Gmerek Hope Lodge 2012

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Audrey Gmerek Hope Lodge 2012

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Audrey Gmerek Hope Lodge 2012

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Audrey Gmerek Washington State Science Fair

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14 Dec 2012

Audrey Gmerek

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Audrey Gmerek Whistler

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Audrey Gmerek Hope Lodge 2012

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Audrey Gmerek Whistler

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Kate Grossman McVay

Kate G. Sequoia, Aidan, Reilly goofing around Maxwelton beach

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RMSKE

2015

Kate Grossman McVay Pat takes the boys to Pier 57!

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JMRMSKE

Kate Grossman McVay More goofing around can you imagine that?!

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RMSKE

2017

Kate Grossman McVay Castle Park Sled Day

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JMRMMSKEMS

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Sep 2024

Kate Grossman McVay Pat, Bob, Aidan cheering on the Huskies!

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JMRMMSKEMS

1 Dec 2014

Liz Andre Aiden & family in Leavenworth. It was a joy to spend time with this caring, humorous, and smart kid. His love for his brother and parents just shone.

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JMRMS

4 Sep 2008

Kiley Eggebraaten

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Rachel

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Robert . Letchworth State Park in New York, I think?

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Kiley Eggebraaten Trick or Treat!

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Kiley Eggebraaten

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JMRMSES

Jul 2022

Tori Schuller all dressed up for the minions movie

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JGRMSKELPES

20 Jun 2021

Sterling Patton Forever and always, buddy. I'll see you sooner than you know.

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RMMSKELP

4 Jul 2009

Laura and Gordon Free Maxwelton Parade

Laura and Gordon F. We Love Our Memories of the times we shared with Aidan.

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Laura and Gordon Free

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4 Jul 2010

Laura and Gordon Free July Celebration

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Laura and Gordon Free Christmas 2010

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Laura and Gordon Free Birthday Celebration March 2011

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RMMSKE

21 Jul 2011

Laura and Gordon Free Microsoft Picnic

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Aug 2011

Laura and Gordon Free Outdoor Classroom

Kiley E. The beginning of his journey into chemistry :)

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RMMSKE

Aug 2011

Laura and Gordon Free Crabbing

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DHRMMSKE

Emma Kimsey Memorial Day Weekend 2017 with AO and all the cousins

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RMSKELP

Erin Simms 2012 Sounders game

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Erin Simms Michael Gspurning Autograph after the game

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Erin Simms Graduation

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STRMSKELP

Erin Simms Dem Boys

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RMMSKE

Erin Simms Game night December 2024 ❤️

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RMSKELP

Erin Simms Capture the Flag in the rain party

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Erin Simms Finishing State! Covid addition

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Erin Simms State Champs!

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Erin Simms World Cup 2022 viewing at a bar 7:00 am Whistler!

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RMSKELP

Erin Simms State!

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RMMSKEMS

Robert Aidan’s listing on the Free Radicals chemistry mentoring site

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Robert Merry Christmas, boys! Make a nice face, Aidan!

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RMSKE

Robert Hiking with Aidan and Ozzy near Brandywine Falls, near Whistler, British Columbia

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RMSLP

Erin Simms 2016 to 2019 Hole in the Wall re-creation

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Erin Simms Gondola ride Whistler

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Erin Simms Token Olympic Rings photo

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Erin Simms Gingerbread and game night!

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2005

Mary Simmons A visit to Whidbey to meet newborn Ian and sweet little Aidan. Beautiful day.

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Erin Simms State 2019

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Kiley Eggebraaten

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Kiley Eggebraaten Luau dance party

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Kiley Eggebraaten

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Kiley Eggebraaten

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Kiley Eggebraaten Cutest Spiderman ever!

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Stephanie Marr We met Aidan when he was very little. This was the only photo of him sitting still!

Mary S. Love! That visit with him was so special. Such a sweet gentle soul.

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2 Nov 2019

Rowan Dickerson

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DGLOR

13 May 2024

Aaron Weaver Highlights from the Ginger Lab soccer team. Aidan was the unanimous MVP!

Robert . Love these! Thanks for sharing! Aidan scoring in the 5 hole! :)

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KELP

Robert Ian and Aidan at Semiahmoo!

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Robert Aidan and friends at Hope Lodge, near Stevens Pass

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KELPES

Robert Aidan (#14) with the SW Falcons and Coach Robbins! Credit: Matt Simms

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Robert Paddle boarding at Lake Crescent until the sun went down.

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Judith Holman

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Judith Holman

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Judith Holman

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Judith Holman

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Judith Holman

Leigha P. That face! 🩵

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Judith Holman

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RKE

18 Jul 2024

Hannah Contreras Annual Ginger Lab summer BBQ

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RLP

19 Apr 2024

Hannah Contreras Broke through his cleats scoring 3-4 goals leading basically every UW intramural game!!

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RKEMS

20 May 2024

Hannah Contreras Aidan presenting his work on optimizing solar cell interlayers at UW's Undergraduate Research Symposium.

Aidan’s spirit always glistened through his gorgeous eyes.

Carol Griz-Bach

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RKELP

23 Mar 2025

Carol Griz-Bach Such curiosity, kindness & strength. Not afraid of a bit of mischief on the side.

I have waited quite a while to add to Aidan's memory book for many reasons...processing this devastating news has been so painful and sad and for a time there were no words to write. Aidan was a former student of mine at the Primary School where I was the Physical Education Specialist. He would come bounding through the door and ask excitedly what...

Jan McNeely 28 Mar 2025

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