Celebrating the life of

Steven John Neophytou

21st December, 1977 - 11th April, 2023

65 entries

Lisa HallSteve you were such a strong person who was determined to accomplish whatever you set your mind to. You had just endured a round of chemo but you wouldn't let that stop you from creating more memories with friends and family. Such a great time was had camping with you and the family at Eildon and getting you out on the couch behind the boat. Rest peacefully Love the Hall's ❤️ 23rd April, 2023
Theresa WuStill can't believed that you're gone but never be forgotten. I will truly missed you sous chef. Its been a pleasure to have worked with you. I will missed your mushroom risotto. Rest in Peace my friend.23rd April, 2023
Phil ThrelfallSteve will be missed by us all, and know that the time he spent with Dad at family gatherings, engaging in conversation and, as mentioned in the service just ‘sharing the love’, was noticed by us all. We will always be hugely grateful for Steve’s compassion and kindness, he will not be forgotten.22nd April, 2023
Sandra RobertsonRip Steven sadly missed 22nd April, 2023
Vanessa HerbertRest easy Steve , a true gentleman who will be sadly missed Thinking of you Amanda , Taylor and Harrison x22nd April, 2023
Nat CarrI feel so blessed to have seen Steve (Neo) last year at a basketball tournament. Still with a big smile on his face like he always had when I knew him at school. Sending my heartfelt condolences to all his family. May the wonderful memories and times together give you comfort at this difficult time. 22nd April, 2023
Andy & Pam AchilleosSteve holds a special place in our hearts and we will always remember him. Amanda, Taylor & Harrison may all those wonderful memories, times and experiences you shared comfort you. Love Andy & Pam ❤️ 21st April, 2023
Paul HerbertMiss you mate you fought so hard rest in peace Steve (pastry puff) love Fatty21st April, 2023
Tania Gummersall Condolences for your loss. We hope the beautiful memories you have created as a family will give you strength to get through and navigate these difficult times. 21st April, 2023
Mark WeatherleyTime Does not stop! Somehow it flys by and we say it gets in the way, or does it? Work,family,friends, hobbies or really just life in general. I feel very saddened today for Amanda and the family how time does not stop and here we are giving our blessings to someone who was supposed to be growing old, as we used to chat about many a times. Steve and I had many and many chats, we were like chalk and cheese. The day when the club thought it would be a good idea to do a personality test for staff it confirmed it , that yes we were a good fit in a professional capacity!We already knew this and yes we had a good laugh. we just got into the grove and motions, never argued yes we were chalk and cheese got the job done to a high standard that what was required. I thank you Steve hats off to you and to have a great right hand person especially in the kitchen is something not to many would really appreciate let alone understand. I met steve for the first time after he applied for a position as Sous chef with Royal Melbourne Golf Club in the early 2000’s. The club was being renovated and as the club was who it was everyone around Australia as well the world were looking, expectations and standards were set high from day one. To this day i remember as if it was yesterday , i was building up the team I needed a young energetic professional and Steve came in. I had only really one thought as his resume mentioned churches, I thought crap I need to change my language (swearing!) I really had no fear! We laughed about this as well. We spent 8 years together he was a great chef and he grew professionally, developed team building, understood the kitchen management and staffing in particularly. Sometimes in the kitchen we know that management really has no real understanding of what happens. In those years Steve and I spent more time together than with our loved ones, you have to get on and enjoy each others company otherwise it is a revolving door and overall standards and consistency goes out the window as it all starts at the top. Yes you need to understand food and how to sell it to a standard consistently every day to a budget, but you are also the hr department, plumber, mechanic, carpenter, phycologist, comedian, counsellor, coach, football commentator, umpire, fridge technician............Etc etc Steve you lived life and have a beautiful family. Remember your beautiful wedding as well, do not understand the geelong thing tho! Lol .... I will always remember your voice on the phone every call went like this Hi Steve (me) Hey... how you going?steve) Not bad? And you?( me) Yeah same same pretty good(steve) To Taylor and Harrison you may not even know me I remember when you guys were little and born. Steve was a true kitchen professional and humble. I would have always recommended him for any executive position and even one day reaching out and doing something together again without hesitation. He was my rock, my right hand man, a little good cop bad cop sometimes,we were in the spot light in the club world, he bought consistency, reliability, and cohesiveness into the brigade. These attributes are extremely hard to teach you need to have them in you as a person to begin with. If there is ever a time in your lives, may-not be know, but may happen decade later or whenever, that you would like to know more about your dad in the day to day life in the kitchen (in those early years in his first management role)please reach out. I will always be here and fully understand your thoughts. Steve ... far out man ... you will be missed High five and Nice one (When a vip event went well we used to do this) 21st April, 2023
Bronwyn HowellThank you Amanda, Taylor and Harrison. Your tribute to Steve and your Dad is to be commended. He was always such a caring person and it was lovely to hear that everyone enjoyed his company as much as I did. RIP Steve! You were one amazing person. 21st April, 2023
Paul VardyWhat an amazing service for Steve. Well done to all. I was fortunate enough to work with Steve when he was Sous Chef at Royal Melbourne Golf Club and later at Kew Golf Club, where we appointed him in his first Head Chef role. He immediately lifted the standard and members comments on the food flowed in. He was awesome and well liked by all. I was proud of him. My favourite memory was around 2005 at Royal Melbourne where we all did the Myers Briggs personally test. (He was the same profile as Peter Costello who was Federal Treasurer which impressed me.) In a group question, rating 0 to 10, we were asked if alcohol is needed to host a good party. Everyone was spreading through 3-8 as their ratings. I saw Steve waddle in his chef shoes for Zero so I went to 10. There was a door at the end of the room so I kept going. It was Steve’s reaction I was looking for. Gee we laughed- there were many great moments. Huge condolences to Amanda, Taylor and Harrison. RIP Steve. 21st April, 2023
Lisa FallaOur thoughts are with you Amanda, Taylor and Harrison, and we hope you find comfort and laughter in your memories of Steve. Love Dave, Lisa, Finn and Archer Falla xx21st April, 2023
Liam FurlongI remember driving nights with Steve, Erik and Joel when we all had BM's, well, I had my parents. One night we met at a Macca's out northeast, I arrived and mentioned I'd been through the new Burnley tunnel. Steve said, "I can't believe they've filled that thing with speed cameras", giving me a knowing look. Yep, I lost my licence that night. My heart is so full for you all, Amanda, Taylor and Harry, I know we're not close as we've been before, but if you need anything just ask. All my love Xx21st April, 2023
Mariela LlopartOur deepest condolences Amanda, Taylor and Harrison on the loss of a devoted husband and father. Steve’s legacy certainly lives on in each of you - seen in your strength, love and family unity during this difficult time. Sending you love and support xx Carlos, Mariela, Thomas and Lucas 21st April, 2023
Vincenza ThorntonSending you all our love and support. Steve was a true gentleman. He will be missed xo 21st April, 2023
Roman Thornton FamilyI remember Steve coaching our basketball team for inter school sports. And making it into division.21st April, 2023
Laura & Tony Primiero The sky has a new star watching over you all forever. Our deepest condolences. His infectious smile will be greatly missed. 21st April, 2023
Taylor’s basketball teamSteve was always encouraging us from the sidelines and cheering us on. We loved when he coached us and he was always the loudest one on the bench. We will all miss him dearly. 21st April, 2023
Middleton familyDeepest condolences to your entire family, we will miss seeing Steve every weekend at footy or basketball supporting the team, and will miss the happiness that he always brought to those around him. Lisa, Dave, Curtis and Matthew xo21st April, 2023
Cheryl HamiltonThinking of you and the kids Amanda. Know that you are loved so deeply. What a wonderful celebration of Steve. Taylor and Harrison did so so well. Love, Cheryl 21st April, 2023
Jade GoodenRest peacefully Steve, we will miss your smile, laugh and humour. All my love to Amanda and the kids, thinking of you all 21st April, 2023
Anthony De NardisSincere condolences George and Karen and Amanda and extended family. My prayers are with you all. Anthony 21st April, 2023
Graham & Eulalie HolmanWe are honored to join everyone in remembering our talented lovely friend.He has finished his marathon ahead of us but we know we!ll meet again in the glorious presence of our wonderful God. Love and prayers, Graham and Eulalie Holman. 21st April, 2023
Rosanna Spina - mother of Alex PaineWe are very sorry for your loss. We understand the devastation and loss and want you to know that we are thinking of you and know that you will keep Steve’s love close always Rosanna, Isabella and Alessandro Paine 21st April, 2023
Alessandro PaineDear Harrison, I am so sorry for your loss and I hope you are feeling ok. I k ow how you feel21st April, 2023
Jenny De Nardis Dear Karen, George, Amanda and family, My sincere condolences on Steven’s passing. 21st April, 2023
Fletcher Payne21st April, 2023
Ian Fetherstonhaugh Ian Robyn Matthew and James 21st April, 2023
Carolyn & Shane Varcoe May this dear family know our Lord's continuing grace and presence. 21st April, 2023
Tim MorelandDeepest sympathy to the Neo family. Great man gone too soon!! Lots of love from the Moreland’s. 21st April, 2023
Kelly-Jane DixonTo Amanda and family. Sorry to hear the passing of much loved husband and father, Steve. Thinking of you all. May Steve now be in a better place. Love Kelly, Steve and Bradley Dixon21st April, 2023
Vaughan SellickAll my thoughts and love are with you Amanda, Taylor and Harrison. Steve’s beaming smile, with his whole face sums up how genuine, how easy to get on with and how nice he was. Vaughan21st April, 2023
Michael GraingerPlease accept my sincere condolences 21st April, 2023
Pauline RickardSending our love and strength on this difficult day, the day you farewell Steve. He was loved by many and will be immensely missed. Rest in eternal peace Steve.21st April, 2023
Joel FurlongHey big fella, it has been an honour to know you and can you my friend. You have created an amazing legacy in your family of love, laughter, and community. Rest well my friend. 21st April, 2023
Seán WatsonMy heart grieves for Amanda, Taylor and Harrison and I send my deepest condolences to you all. We only knew Steve and his family through holidaying with them at Cape Paterson the last 3 summers. One of the last memories I have of Steve is standing in the surf with him at the surf beach just bantering about this and that. He was weak at that stage but so determined to be at the beach with his family and he was really enjoying it. The lifesavers kindly gave him a lift back up the ramp! He fought so long and so hard and Amanda, you are an incredible human to endure what you have endured. These events comes with no instructions however you have handled yourself amazingly well and you are now in a wonderful position to help others. Bridie sends her love and is feeling very sad for Taylor and your family. They have a great friendship even though they don't see each other much. We have to make sure that continues in the coming months. Steve's memory will live on and we feel very fortunate to have been able to get to know you all over the last 3 years. Thinking of you all. Sincerely, The Watsons21st April, 2023
Rob BelmudaSteve, I will miss your genuine smile whenever we would catch up and the footy chats. You were such a beautiful person and you will be missed. 21st April, 2023
Joe Pignataro Steve l will miss our banter whenever the Hawks play the Cats. You will be greatly miseed my friend. 21st April, 2023
Dan MurphyI will always remember Steve as an incredibly friendly and genuine person. He made me feel so welcome when I joined Mackie CC and he was very committed to helping our club on and off the field, whether he was winning a flag, selecting the senior teams or providing some great food for hungry players. My deepest condolences to Amanda, Taylor, Harrison and all of Steve's family.20th April, 2023
Luke NeoVery saddened to hear of Stevens passing. A genuinely nice and decent guy, who will be deeply missed. Condolences to Karen, George, Amanda Harrison and Taylor. With love from Luke, Ruby and Sam Neo20th April, 2023
Adrian, Natalie and Eliana SayersSteven Neophytou our beautiful cousin am glad we got to say we love you on Facebook and you will always be in our hearts 💕💕💕. Now with Jesus you are and our thoughts are with Amanda, Taylor and Harrison who need our prayers the most. Forever loved by your extended family and in our hearts xoxo20th April, 2023
Emily HerbertI send my deepest condolences to Amanda, T, and H. May Steve rest in peace. My favourite memory with Steve would have to be jet skiing ! He would ALWAYS go slow and steady because I was a scardy cat. He was always just a breathe of fresh air. So much love your way 💗20th April, 2023
Darren & Damon MauriceWe only got to know Steve over the past year at basketball while we have been coaching Harrison. He was just the nicest guy and we enjoyed our chats about NBA and his love and passion for all sports which Damon and I certainly had in common with him. We are so glad he got to see his beloved Cats win the premiership last year and then that special moment during Rd 1 this year with Harrison running thru the banner with Dangerfield. So glad you got to spend precious family time in Hamilton Island together and these are just a few special memories recently that we hope you can remember fondly forever. Our heart just breaks for you Amanda, Taylor and Harrison, just know that we will support Harrison not just this season at the club but any other season he is at Spectres. Please accept our deepest sympathies again, lots of Love Darren & Damon Maurice 20th April, 2023
Carolyn & Darren GrenfellA message from the Grenfell family … We feel lucky to have spent so many Saturdays with Steve watching our boys play basketball together. We appreciate his encouragement and support of our boys .. even recently coaching Ollie at the school Gala Day. Our hearts break for Amanda, Taylor and Harrison. Love from Caz, Daz, Austin, Ollie and Fraser x20th April, 2023
Meghan AmbrensWhen I think back on what I remember about Steve, I think of his smile. He had a great smile. I also remember how much he cared about people. I am so sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you all. 20th April, 2023
Gideon SegalMy condolences on your loss. Steve was a great clubman on and off the field and he will be missed. On the field you always knew he was there with his constant chatter of encouragement to the bowlers and fielders. He was always wanting to be involved no matter where the ball went to and gave his all be it diving or chasing down the ball. Off the field he did so much, be it the BBQ's or Selection or whatever needed to be done around the club. His last game earlier this year was a testament to his determination and I was privileged to be there to support him on the day.20th April, 2023
Stan MoraitisMy condolences to the family xxxx You treated my boys like family. God takes the good ones first they reckon, well he’s got the BEST one walking to the gates of Heaven. What a superstar. You’ll always be my little buddy. 🤍💙 Rest easy Steve. Only 💙 for you!! 🙏🙏🙏20th April, 2023
Marcus MiddletonWhat a privilege it has been to have known Steve. During our time at Mackie, we shared many a message about all things cricket, family and footy. Steve just had a kind heart. Always wanted the best for people and nothing was ever too much trouble. Reflecting over the last few days, I thought I’d go back on all our messages over the years, which brought back some loverly memories, but also verified how much Steve loved people, especially his family and young adults always wanting the best for them when it came to cricket and life in general. Knowing Steve has made me a better person and I promise every time I step out onto the cricket field, I will be doing everything possible to keep making Mackie great , just the way you would have wanted it. Amanda, Taylor and Harrison my deepest condolences . If you need anything, please let us know . Marcus and the Middleton Family.19th April, 2023
Juanita MartinWe offer our thoughts, prayers, and well wishes during this time. May the love which comes from the memories of Steven comfort you now and in the days ahead. Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for the loss of Steven. May you find comfort in friends and family during this difficult time. RIP Steven John Neophytou. From Martin & Pytellek Family 19th April, 2023
Fedra LaceyWhile I hadn’t seen Steven in person for a long time I was happy to have been able to chat on messenger for the last few months and encourage him and tell him I was praying for him constantly and he always responded 🙂 I loved looking at his beautiful family photos, he will surely be very missed, I shared this scripture last year with him - 1 Corinthians 15-1-4 kjb 🙏19th April, 2023
Pete Bradles Some special memories from the Bradles family Elliott: My best memory of Steve is a collection of our footy banter and his belief in me to play cricket at a high level.I remember when I must’ve been 16 or 17 playing at Mackie and the ones were about to make finals,and I hadn’t scored many runs for the year .I was doubting if I was good enough and Steve could tell,because I remember after a training session before the first final V Carnegie he came up to me and said “just believe in yourself and you’ll be fine mate,you’re good enough “ I really appreciated his belief in me,it was very kind of him to come up to me and steer me in the right mental direction as a young person. This was the kind of person that Steve was. He had calming words and believed in so many people. Oliver: I remember Steve was always around the club,always at training and willing to have a chat to you and ask how you’re going Steve was really a great bloke Bradles: I remember Steve as the “waddler”He seemed to walk side to side like a duck (and I reminded him of that fact when ever he made one.) Steve was the kind of guy who never seemed troubled by anything,even his tragic illness ,and I never ever heard Steve speak ill of anyone. Such a sad loss to Amanda and the kids and the Neo family I was holidaying at Yarrawonga when I got the news from Darce…and I couldn’t help it,I just burst into tears Our love and deepest condolences The Bradles family xx19th April, 2023
Yvonne KosterMany happy memories of our time together at Kew GC - and the occasional catch ups at Kardinia Park. Your pride in your work, your family and our beloved Cats will always stay with me friend. Rest well Chef. Love to Amanda, Taylor and Harrison. 18th April, 2023
Bec DaviesAuthenticity & Integrity are words that come to mind when I think of Steve. You were this and so much more. It was a privilege to watch Steve & Amanda’s romance grow from a little spark into a beautiful love story. You created a wonderful life for each other and Taylor & Harrison. Holding you all in my heart. 18th April, 2023
Steve Nicoll So sad to hear that Steve’s fight ended and my thoughts are with you all. I didn’t know Steve that well but you knew he was a fantastic family man & friend to all. R.I.P. Steve18th April, 2023
Maria BrowneI remember Steve as a little boy, he was so cute. He grew into a lovely young man and married Amanda his only love. They are had two beautiful children Taylor and Harrison. Steve has left us too young but he has lived his life fully and he is now not suffering anymore. Another angel in heaven, we believe we will be reunited someday. God Bless you Amanda and your extended family. RIP Steve.17th April, 2023
Ann BallantyneMy dear nephew Steve, I will treasure many memories of you as a child where our families spent so much time together. You enjoyed playing with all your cousins at our Christmases, Easters, birthdays and family gatherings. I will cherish these happy, special times forever. You were such a cute kid with a big smile who became an incredible loving husband and father. You are now at peace in Paradise. My heartfelt sorrow, love and prayers to your beautiful family Amanda, Taylor and Harrison. I ❤️ U ……Love always Ann and family xxoo16th April, 2023
Silvana & Frank PansinoSteve to know you was to love you. With gentleness you always displayed such care, kindness and a willingness to give of yourself to others. We will always remember the way you loved Amanda, Taylor and Harrison with every bit of your heart. Your determination and fight to the end a real inspiration for us all. Whenever we see the “Cats” play we will always smile and remember you. To Amanda, Taylor and Harrison words cannot express how sorry we are. Our heart goes out to you and our love and support will always be there for you .15th April, 2023
Sabrina & Will BartholomewTo our dear Melbourne family: Amanda, Taylor, Harrison & Nan. We've laughed, cooked, eaten, danced, played, debated, celebrated, commiserated, been soaked through and even been half-naked (some of us, anyway) with you. We've shared extraordinary times and quiet moments. And now we are with you in our shared grief as we say farewell to an inspirational and sensational husband, father, brother and friend, who was one of the best of men. Till we meet again, Steve, MYSRIP ❤️15th April, 2023
Joel ShawAn absolute gentleman in every sense of the word. A kinder soul you couldn't meet . Privileged to call Steve a premiership team mate. Special thoughts go to his family. Joel.15th April, 2023
Dave DouglasSteve is the reason I became a Mackie family member. He was generous, loving human and a passionate cricketer who was loved by everyone that met him. Condolences Amanda, Taylor and Harrison. May his memory live forever in your and everyone’s hearts🖤💛15th April, 2023
Sonya MorelandDear Amanda, Taylor and Harrison. What a very special husband and Dad you had. Always watching your individual sports you were playing and your biggest supporter. He had such a fighting spirit seen even more through his latest fight. Our deepest sympathies to you all. Treasure your memories. Love the Moreland family. Go Cats ⚪️🔵💞15th April, 2023
Ilona CetrolaMy heart goes out to you Amanda, your family and beautiful Harrison and Taylor. Steve was one of the most generous and kind-hearted souls, with a smile that could light up the room. I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. He will live on in all of our fond memories. As we share in your sadness, we celebrate the life of a truly wonderful person. All my love xxx15th April, 2023
Christine WilliamsAs the sun sets Our reflection of Steve Is of, Inclusion, Compassion, Patience and Unconditional Love for his Immediate Family and Extended Family We know these attributes and values have been bestowed within Taylor and Harrison as they grow whilst sharing Steve’s Legacy. With our eternal love for Steve and devotion to Amanda, Taylor and Harrison . Barry and Christine Williams Dad, Grandad and Gran xxxxxx15th April, 2023
Kylie PayneWe are so sorry for your loss. We are grateful that we knew Steve and got to spend time with him over the last few years. Our hearts go out to Amanda, Taylor & Harrison. We can’t imagine the pain that you are going through. Lots of love The Payne Family ❤️15th April, 2023

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